In the latest episode of the “Life’s Checkmark” podcast, I had the privilege of speaking with Vicki Paris Goodman, a woman who has navigated the tumultuous waters of grief and emerged with invaluable insights. Her story begins with the loss of her beloved husband, Sam, and unfolds into a narrative rich with love, faith, and resilience. Vicki’s experiences offer profound lessons for anyone facing life’s inevitable challenges.
Embrace Signs and Messages
Vicki’s journey is filled with extraordinary occurrences that she interprets as signs from her late husband and a higher power. After Sam’s passing, she began noticing recurring apparitions and coincidences, such as the appearance of a sunflower—a flower with special significance to Sam. These experiences have reinforced her belief in an afterlife and provided a comforting reassurance during her moments of doubt and sorrow.
Balancing Activity with Reflection
In the wake of Sam’s death and amidst the global COVID-19 pandemic, Vicki discovered the delicate balance between staying active and taking time for self-reflection. She found that engaging in activities helped her cope with grief, yet it was equally important to pause and reflect on her feelings. This equilibrium was crucial for her mental health and allowed her to process her emotions in a healthy manner.
Opportunity for Growth
Perhaps the most inspiring aspect of Vicki’s story is her openness to growth even in the face of loss. She embraced new experiences, from finding joy in singing to embarking on a journey to Antarctica. These adventures not only brought her happiness but also facilitated personal growth, proving that life can offer new beginnings even after profound loss.
For those interested in hearing more about Vicki’s incredible journey, you can watch the full episode of the interview on YouTube or listen on all major platforms at Life’s Checkmark. This is a story that could inspire and uplift anyone who needs a reminder of the strength and resilience within us all. Share it with someone you know who could benefit from a life-changing story.
Vicki Paris Goodman is an accomplished author who brings a deeply personal and heartfelt narrative to her book, “To Sam, With Love.” This poignant memoir chronicles Vicki’s journey through the heart-wrenching experience of losing her beloved spouse, Sam, to cancer. With a background in journalism and a talent for storytelling, Vicki captures the raw emotions and profound love that characterized their relationship.
